tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post7231306569131965070..comments2015-06-08T17:26:40.642-05:00Comments on Little House in the Small Town: Homeschool PhariseeJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-82010007537805703382012-01-18T00:21:04.346-06:002012-01-18T00:21:04.346-06:00Oh Char, I'm not really stressing about the 87...Oh Char, I'm not really stressing about the 875 hours. Sorry if I was unclear about that. Even though the binder says Week 15, I am confident we're easily on target for fulfilling those hours. So, realizing that I *only* have to do that was a relief! <br /><br />I had put too much in the binders--too much academia, that is--that I didn't leave enough room for real life learning. Lisa mentioned balance, and that's what I'm praying towards. The play, I think, fits in with some of that real life learning (i.e. "socialization", fine arts, teamwork, logistics, and basically getting out of the house). ; ) <br /><br />I'm also rethinking some homeschooling goals. Last week, I'd say those goals were to finish the books! Finishing curriculum does not necessarily equal true learning, however. I don't know.... Like I said, I'm doing a lot of praying...and reading...and talking with Dave...and talking with the kids.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-62992985815635040022012-01-17T16:23:20.997-06:002012-01-17T16:23:20.997-06:00Dear Jenny,
I would like to strongly encourage yo...Dear Jenny,<br /><br />I would like to strongly encourage you to not stress out too much about the 875 hours of instruction. <br /><br />Now, to be clear, I’ve had this same struggle myself, a number of times. I’m subject to the governing authority, and I certainly don’t want to ignore their requirements or manipulate numbers to fall in line with their policy. Even more, I don’t want to cheat my children out of their education. But, according to our state, my husband and I run a private school (which doesn’t accept any government funding ). Therefore, we get to decide the priorities in our school.<br /><br />Yes, the state does say we need to make sure our children are progressing in 6 specific subjects. But it doesn’t say they need to spend all of their time, or even most of their time, on those subjects. Don’t get me wrong, I want my kids to have a strong grasp of basic academic subjects. But, the academic subjects are a tool toward my even greater goal of helping my children discover the gifts God has given them and guiding them to use those gifts in a way that glorifies Him.<br /><br />As you alluded to in another comment, all of those extras – swimming, dance, play practice, Awana, family trips, etc. – count. If you are teaching 875 instructional hours, plus all of the additional activities your children are involved in, you are providing way more than the governing authority dictates. (And that’s just during the school year – think of everything they’re learning each summer!) <br /><br />I probably should wrap this up and get back to working with my kids , and I’m not sure I really made a point. I guess my point is that it’s okay to relax. Pray about it. Lighten your load, maybe substantially, if that’s where God leads you. It’s okay to drop the things in your school day that aren’t really working out or that are distracting you from your main homeschooling goals. (Well, um, hopefully not the play, though :) ) You’re a student, too, in all of this, and God’s helping you discover the right balance for you and your family.madhenmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09569825811980558352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-56674608475456556452012-01-17T14:02:17.873-06:002012-01-17T14:02:17.873-06:00The Jan. 14 issue. It's more of a column than ...The Jan. 14 issue. It's more of a column than an article. Interesting, tho.Craig MacDonaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15009106813276258610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-67715880221955388042012-01-17T13:21:25.935-06:002012-01-17T13:21:25.935-06:00"Unschooling" is a tricky word. Origina..."Unschooling" is a tricky word. Originally, it simply meant doing school in a different way than a classroom situation. The goal was to try to undo a cookie-cutter, assembly line, industrial type of education. That could mean anything from an apprenticeship to unit studies. When people talk about unschooling today, though, it means (most of the time) "delight-directed learning". This is where the child determines what is learned and when. Now, this *can* be done effectively, but it takes a LOT of parental involvement, which seems counter-intuitive to the label "unschooling". When a child expresses interest in a subject, it's the parent's job to help provide resources--and the younger the child, the more work that is. It's also a record-keeping nightmare. We don't "unschool" according to this definition. Frankly, I'm too lazy to do it right! I also appreciate more structure than unschooling provides. <br /><br />In which issue of World is the article you read?Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-74797795657020578672012-01-16T19:49:00.696-06:002012-01-16T19:49:00.696-06:00I read an article in World Magazine today about Ch...I read an article in World Magazine today about Christian unschooling. They take a dim view of it The govt. estimates that up to 30% of home schoolers are unschoolers. I thought of my friend Jen and how she could NEVER unschool. Somewhere in between is the line, and you'll find it.Craig MacDonaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15009106813276258610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-39177810738519374342012-01-16T13:02:40.917-06:002012-01-16T13:02:40.917-06:00Yes, Lisa, balance! Somehow, everything comes bac...Yes, Lisa, balance! Somehow, everything comes back to balance, it seems. "...(L)et life unfold." I really like that. Oftentimes it seems I'm trying to force open the flower of learning. That doesn't work very well.<br /><br />Week 17 it is! = ) When counting my hours, I always forget to add in dance lessons, swimming lessons, field trips (we went to the National Zoo fer-cryin'-out-loud), and all the stuff my kids learned about other cultures & countries at the missionary conference.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-69868740831338706962012-01-16T07:47:50.237-06:002012-01-16T07:47:50.237-06:00Jenny, I can so relate to what you're saying b...Jenny, I can so relate to what you're saying because I'm a planner and list-maker, too. There is certainly a balance somewhere between using the binder (or schedule or curriculum or whatever) a tool and not a master, but sometimes they can get blurred. May all we homeschool moms have the courage and wisdom to teach our children well, cross out or change things on our "list", enjoy our children, and let life unfold. Oh, and I think you should consider yourself on Week 17 since your children certainly received some great real-life education during those 2 weeks of travel.<br />Love,<br />LisaMamaBergmannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04028632418852573135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-68835293329100207362012-01-15T23:56:17.135-06:002012-01-15T23:56:17.135-06:00Craig, that's funny on more than one level, co...Craig, that's funny on more than one level, considering Conklin was Academic Dean!<br /><br />Bailey, visiting pet stores sounds lovely! Maybe we'll tag along. = ) Actually, the kids have all been asking about helping out at the Humane Society again. We had gotten away from that because there was "too much to do". <br /><br />Oh, and I'm reading The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe to Lydia right now, even though it's supposed to be Henry Huggins--according to the binder. She loves it. "Just one more chapter, Mom? Please?" *That's* what I want to hear.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-75104377808465717432012-01-15T20:59:46.175-06:002012-01-15T20:59:46.175-06:00Yay, Jenny! This is the spirit of homeschooling. M...Yay, Jenny! <em>This</em> is the spirit of homeschooling. My best homeschooling memories happened out-of-the-binder, so to speak. (Actually, they usually occurred in conjunction with the younger grades. They get all the fun read alouds and field trips. <em>I</em> don't get to go to a pet store to learn about turtles in action....)<br /><br />I know how you feel, as a perfectionist, as a preschool teacher and as my own schedule-maker. This was my first year coming up with my own curriculum and schedule, and I really pushed myself. I freaked out just before Christmas because I was certain I'd end up doing school until August at least. I'm actually going to finish sometime in March, if even that late. :P I'm planning on doing something really geeky until graduation -- like visiting pet stores.Baileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09767008856547823152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-15455927468526657012012-01-15T20:55:43.341-06:002012-01-15T20:55:43.341-06:00Yeah, I'm a lot older than I look. And it turn...Yeah, I'm a lot older than I look. And it turns out Conklin was a plagiarist.Craig MacDonaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15009106813276258610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-37622054517192453082012-01-15T15:31:03.155-06:002012-01-15T15:31:03.155-06:00I didn't know you knew Mark Twain!I didn't know you knew Mark Twain!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-47115060837006554422012-01-15T14:30:01.260-06:002012-01-15T14:30:01.260-06:00A former colleague was fond of saying, "Never...A former colleague was fond of saying, "Never let school get in the way of your education."Craig MacDonaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15009106813276258610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-29747967326442690072012-01-15T13:37:49.600-06:002012-01-15T13:37:49.600-06:00You're right, Sue. I'd say the distance h...You're right, Sue. I'd say the distance high school is your governing authority. I'd also add that high school, in general, is a bit different than the younger grades.<br /><br />Next year, my governing authority will change somewhat for Emma, since she'll be a freshman in high school. I want for her to earn a high school diploma, so we'll need to abide by the number of credits the state of WI requires--and what do to to earn them.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01243328500255881859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7838992976671619809.post-21572965706950126042012-01-15T12:41:41.825-06:002012-01-15T12:41:41.825-06:00I totally get what you're saying and agree wit...I totally get what you're saying and agree with you, but I find myself having to stay on top of things (or having to work to get on top of things when I'm not) this year, because Zach has been enrolled in a distance high school. Now it really IS up to the binder, so to speak. I'm paying someone else to be a pharisee for me, as the entire point is accountability and official record keeping.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00261032566326846184noreply@blogger.com